Taking time the French way with PumpjackPiddlewick

Taking time to be part of life, to enjoy it, to work it, to make the most of it, is definitely a French way of life. It is an aspect of the culture here that I have discovered, am trying to understand better and embrace.

I suspect my perspective of the French use of time may be a definite outsiders view. That is, if you asked someone French, I suspect they will simply say they do with their time what most people do, without really thinking about it. They wouldn’t realise it may be different from the way others do. Like most of us wouldn’t realise. But having lived in the USA and UK, I can clearly see a difference.

Understanding Priorities

The French (and yes, I am generalising) have a confidence and strength in themselves. They are quite specific in what is important in their life. Family first, then taking time for oneself, work, friends, neighbours… The latter may vary in order, but like them or loathe them, family is always first.

I am in awe of their ability to recognise limitations of time, to understand what is important to them, and to stick to their convictions. They are amazing at applying their time wisely and with focus. It’s something I have found in everyone I have met here.

Are the French Lazy?

A family member of mine once said he thought the French were lazy, just because they took a long lunch break. Seriously!?!? (Tsk tsk tsk) Like many people he equated long hours at work with success, work ethic and worth.

The French don’t work all hours, but they do work hard. I think they invented the whole ‘Work Life Balance’ thing. What I love here is that the same respect is given to time in other areas as to work time. Work is not touted above all else. This makes a lot of sense to me, as work is not a constant, whether in type or duration as compared to other areas of life.

Time is related to money

It’s not that money doesn’t matter here. Of course it does. However, it is not about how much you earn, but what you spend it on. It’s a quality over quantity lifestyle.

If a lot of money is spent on some thing, prime examples are a house or car, then it deserves a good portion of your time to make the spend worthwhile. Therefore a lot of time is spent on maintaining or fixing the home or taking care of and cleaning the car. Seriously, you have never seen such queues at car washes as in France on a Saturday.

Time Spent

It’s an early rising culture, particularly here in the country. (Hooray for me, as I have finally become an early riser. Something I have always wanted to be and now thanks to living here *and ducks* I am.) Most start work at 7 or 8am. Lunch break is anywhere from an hour to 3 hours, depending on type of work and location, as lunch is the main (read cooked) meal of the day. But for those who scorn the long lunch break, it is offset by working later in the evening, finishing 6, 7 or 8pm.

And in consequence, it’s an early to bed culture. It’s rare to see people out and about after dark, or 8pm if it is still light. Most everything shuts by 8, including those French shutters. Even weekends are not late nights, though places do stay open a little longer. Some even as late as 11pm! Though none in my village.

Taking time to…

Time at work is just that, time at work. When you come home, you leave work behind. You shift your focus. If you are lucky enough to have a long lunch break, the additional time might be spent at home during it catching up on gardening, or that book, or a nap.

Evenings might offer a quick gathering, an Apero, with family or friends. An evenings promenade in fine weather, a movie or tv if not. Weekends are for family gatherings, chores, sports and hobbies.

Taking care

I love that my neighbour seems to always have visitors stopping for a chat, both family and friends. He works in his workshop, with doors open to the pathway, giving ample opportunity to at the least wave hello. Even if he is in the middle of a project, if I catch his eye, he always makes time to say hello and have a little chat each time we see each other.

And he is not the only one. There is a very real community of gatherings, individual and group, of all ages here. Oh, and we mustn’t forget the gossip. It’s almost impossible to have a secret in a village. Yet, on the flip side, it’s hard to be lonely in my village. Maybe after all, that is really what taking time the French way means. Taking time is taking care.

More French Findings

If you enjoyed my dip into French Culture and would like to read more of my French Findings

Is French Life Better?

10 More (quirkier) reasons I like France

Stereotypes and Misconceptions about France

Discover French Country Life with Me

What’s all the Fuss about French Markets

Is French Food Better?

Driving in France

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  1. This is simply known in France as l’Art de Vivre….! Something I often explain to clients!

    1. Thanks!! I hadn’t known it had an actual phrase related. Wonderful to be learning all the time 🙂

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