Let’s face it, having a pet duck is not common. And I get asked ALOT about how messy ducks are. Consequently I spend quite a bit of time talking about diapering a duck. Yes, there is such a thing as duck (and chicken) diapers.

One of my favourite and the most amazingly helpful websites is Backyard Chickens. This has been my go to site for any questions about our chickens or ducks. And on the flip side, I try to help those who have, or more importantly are thinking of having, a Pet Duck.

Of Time and Diapering

Recently I was asked how much time I spend with Maggie, our pet duck, as well as whether I diaper her. My short answer turned long, as it varies greatly, and so I thought it worth  adding as a post here.

Maggie is an imprinted duck. That is she thinks I am her mother and doesn’t quite know that she is a duck. She grew up in our cottage, so is quite at home there, and it is where she sleeps at night. (Yes, in the house with us.) She wanders at will, even flying up on to the sofa.  She has a real passion for soft cushions, particularly if in her favourite colour red.

Messy is as Messy does

Now, ducks are messy creatures. They are like dogs when it comes to eating their food. They eat with great gusto. They slurp up their water, and then (and here is where the dog comparison veers off a little) they might bathe in it.

There’s lots of wing flapping, feather fluffing and the odd moult. (Something we are going through right now and I am finding feathers everywhere!)

Let’s Talk Sh$t

They also can’t control their bowels. They have no sphincter, so when they have to go, they have to go. And consequently, and what really makes them different from dogs (or cats) is that you can’t toilet train them. This is what puts most people off having a duck, or chicken, as a pet.

Enter the Duck Diaper. Some lovely soul came up with a harness system for birds that can hold a piece of sanitary pad, thus saving the furniture and lots of washing up.

All Change

We have a diaper for our Maggie. However, she HATES to wear it. She spends the whole time it’s on trying to get it off. She is normally such a vivacious character, but diapering her changes her character completely. And we find this difficult to bear.

We generally only put it on her when she is inside and we have company. That is, when we feel there is a real need. Because it does quiet her (as she is too focused on trying to get it off). This is actually useful when we have visitors, as otherwise she does enjoy being the centre of attention.

Naked Duck

Otherwise, when it is just us in the house, she goes ‘naked’. It’s our preference, so Maggie stays as, well, Maggie. But then how do we deal with the mess?

Luckily, she, like all birds, is quite routine orientated so we know where she likes to hang out when she is inside. I put down towels (preferably red or pink) where she normally likes to stand or sit, e.g. on the sofa, as these are easily washed. We have used, and still occasionally do use, incontinent pads (affiliate*), but as Maggie likes colour, and is more willing to sit on red or pink, we choose to use towels.

A Girly Girl

She very obviously prefers softness underfoot, rather than our stone floor, to hang out on.  From early on, as soon as she could, she’s been hopping up on the sofa to sit. She loves the arm of the sofa as she can survey her ‘Queendom’ and keep an eye on where I am.

She also has a cushion that she has claimed as her own. In fact two, one in our living room, and one upstairs which she sleeps on. Funny enough both are red, so we know she must obviously prefers this colour.

Feeding and Mess

We have learned to feed Maggie only outside. And we particularly don’t let her in the house after she has eaten lettuce – that is an ewwwww in the making. 

She doesn’t eat once she comes in at night, just water bowls dotted about, which makes night time messes easy to manage (most of which ends up on a (red) cloth on her bed that gets washed daily). And stone floors are a wonder, along with wet wipes. Easy.

Spending Time

The time Maggie spends with me varies. If you are thinking of having a pet duck, particularly one that imprints on you, the one thing everyone will tell you is they need a lot of your time.

Think of it as having a baby. You would give all your time, 24/7, to your newborn. The same holds true for an imprinted duck. I, or she, was never alone for her first 8 weeks. She followed me everywhere. Or if I wanted to move faster than her little legs could take her, she rode on my shoulder, tucked in my scarf.

Gaining Independence

She became far more independent after 2 months, after her down had turned to feathers and she was able to fly. Our biggest worry then became that she had no fear of being on her own, including out in the open. We do have predators and have lost 2 ducks to them in the past.

It was a slow process of getting her to hang out with the other ducks, as she did not realise she was one. An interesting study and learning curve for us of nature vs nurture. She knew there was something familiar about them, but she was definitely more comfortable with humans. It wasn’t until she became a teenager and we got a male duck that she started hanging out with the other ducks more.

Creating a Routine

Our routine these days, though it varies each day somewhat, is that she goes with me early each morning to let the other animals (chickens, ducks and rabbits) out. She generally then hangs out, wandering the garden, with the other ducks most of the day.

At various times they, or just Maggie, will come to the cottage to visit. She always calls out on arrival and if they are a flock I simply visit with them and give them lettuce. If she comes on her own I let her in and she generally has a snooze on the sofa for an hour before joining the other ducks again.

At the end of the day she goes around with me as I put the other animals back in their houses for the night. We always give her the choice to stay with the other ducks in the evening, and so far she has always chosen to come back with us to the house.

Part of the Flock

We are lucky in that we work from home, so are home more or less all day. Ducks are definitely a flock animal, needing to be with others, whether human, cat or other ducks. They make a lot of noise if they are left alone, calling out for others.

It is very rare Maggie is ever completely on her own. Occasionally I have had to leave her in the cottage, but always for as short a time as possible, and she just hunkers down awaiting my return.

Settling in for the Night

We have learned her routines more or less now and life is much simpler because of this. Like most animals, she eats, washes, sleeps and plays. When dusk settles she comes in the house, washes up, fluffs her feathers and settles in for a nap on the sofa, recovering, thank you very much, from her exhaustive forays of the day.

Come later in the evening it is play time. Ideally she enjoys when Gigi, our cat, is about as they can play tug and pounce or they can roll balls to each other.

When we are ready to go to bed, Maggie is taken upstairs, has a wash and settles herself on her bed. She sleeps through the night (more or less) if she has been running about all day. If she has been inside napping during the day, she sleeps less in the nights. 

Then, come dawn, Gigi comes up to play with her sibling and the two run around trying to make as much  noise as possible and the day begins anew. Who needs an alarm clock when you have a duck and cat as pets.

Of Duck Diapers

* If you would like to see a Duck (or chicken) Diaper, or if you are in need of one, or other items for a Duck, there are a few places to check out. We recommend PartyFowlPets and FlightQuarters.

For further information on Pet Ducks ~

Can Ducks be Pets – Tales & FAQs

What’s it Like to have a pet duck?

Maggie can fly

Breakfast with Maggie

Dealing with a pregnant Duck

Maggie has her own ducklings

Bad Mummy Duck

*(We are affiliated with Amazon. Should you wish to read more about Nourishing Pumpjack & Piddlewick)


  1. Maggie appears to be a wonderful family member. As a child I can remember having a duck, that was many years ago – I think we eventually took it to a local lake where there were other ducks. A cute post, I like it! 🙂

    1. Author

      Thank you. She is truly an amazing pet. Part dog, part cat if one equates to the familiar. Yet, each day is also uncharted territory as we never quite know what to expect with having a pet that can fly and lives between a human and animal world. We’re loving every moment.

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